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Cartier Toi Et Moi White Black Pearl Two Pearls Bypass Yellow Gold Band Ring
By Cartier
Located in Southampton, PA
18k Yellow Gold Two Pearls White And Black Pearl Bypass Toi Et Moi Band Ring by Cartier. With 2
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20th Century French Band Rings

Materials

Black Pearl, Cultured Pearl, Yellow Gold

Vintage Mid-Century Baguette Diamond Toi Et Moi Statement Ring Cultured Pearls
Located in Munich, Bavaria
This elegantely designed Toi & Moi ring has a brown and a white cultured pearl hug each other. The
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Vintage 1950s Bridal Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, 18k Gold

Retro Brutalist 14 Karat Gold and Double Pearl Moi et Toi Cocktail Ring
Located in Philadelphia, PA
pearls. A cool, organic, modernist twist on the classic moi et toi ring! Date: 20th Century Marked
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20th Century American Modernist Cocktail Rings

Materials

Pearl, Gold

Estate White Black 10.5mm Pearl Diamond Moi et Toi Ring 18k Yellow Gold
Located in Orlando, FL
South Sea and Tahitian Pearl “Moi et Toi” Ring in 18K Yellow Gold Pearls: One white South Sea and
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20th Century Fashion Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, 18k Gold, Yellow Gold

Antique Victorian 10K Yellow Gold Old Euro Diamond and Pearl Toi et Moi Ring
Located in Great Neck, NY
Beautiful Antique Victorian 10K Yellow Gold Old Euro Diamond and Pearl Toi et Moi Ring. This
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Antique 1890s Unknown Victorian Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, Yellow Gold

18 Carat White Gold Natural Pearl and 1 Carat Diamond Crossover Moi et Toi Ring
Located in Chipping Campden, GB
white gold in a crossover design, also called Toi Et Moi / Moi Et Toi. Ring size : N 1/2 or 7
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Early 20th Century Engagement Rings

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Diamond, White Diamond, Pearl, Natural Pearl, 18k Gold, White Gold

“Toi et Moi” Pearl Diamond Ring in 18K White Gold, French Size 53 (US 6½)
Located in MONTMORENCY, FR
This “Toi et Moi” ring beautifully marries two contrasting gemstones—a softly lustrous pearl and
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Early 20th Century French Art Deco Fashion Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, 18k Gold, White Gold

Antique Victorian 1898 two opal hearts, toi et moi / you and me , ring
Located in Malmö, Skåne län
Two opal hearts belonging togheter, spaced by three tiny pearls. Beyond sweet and romantic! Made in
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Antique 1890s Swedish Late Victorian Wedding Rings

Materials

Opal, Gold, 18k Gold, Yellow Gold

Antique Toi et Moi Ring 0.7ct Diamond 0.75ct Sapphire solid Platinum Ø8.5US/2.9g
Located in SE
Antique Antique Toi et Moi Ring with twisted frame in solid Platinum. Claw set diamond cut Diamond
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Vintage 1930s German Art Nouveau Cluster Rings

Materials

Diamond, Sapphire, Platinum

Sleeping Beauty Turquoise Bullet Cabochon Toi et Moi Ring in 18 Karat Gold
Located in Sherman Oaks, CA
This ring spent most of its career as an excruciatingly boring pearl bypass ring.  We breathed new
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Late 20th Century American Contemporary Fashion Rings

Materials

Turquoise, Gold, 18k Gold, Yellow Gold

Pailin Sapphire and Natural Pearl Ring Certified No Heat French Art Nouveau
Located in Northampton, MA
This magnificent French Art Nouveau crossover toi et moi (you and me) ring was handcrafted near the
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Antique Early 1900s French Art Nouveau Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Natural Pearl, Blue Sapphire, Sapphire, 18k Gold, Platinum

Natural Pearl and Diamond Ring
Located in London, GB
this cross over style make this ring emblematic of the ‘toi et moi’ or ‘you and me’ style of ring which
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Vintage 1920s British Edwardian Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Natural Pearl, Platinum

Edwardian Pearl and Diamond Cross over Ring
Located in London, GB
, creating an elegant and romantic shape. The pearl and diamond can be interpreted as a ‘moi et toi’ symbol
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Antique Early 1900s British Edwardian Bridal Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, 18k Gold, Platinum

A "toi et moi" pearl ring
By Valérie Danenberg
Located in New York, NY
An 18 carat white gold ring set with diamonds and a silver grey and and a dark grey tahiti 13mm
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French Fashion Rings

Materials

Cultured Pearl

Pearl Diamond Gold Toi et Moi Ring
Located in Barcelona, ES
Amazing Toi et Moi ring in white gold with 23 brilliant cut diamonds and two cultured pearls
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Vintage 1960s Unknown More Rings

Materials

Cultured Pearl, Diamond, Gold

French Toi Et Moi Ring with Diamonds and Pearls
Located in Paris, FR
18 kt white gold "toi et moi" ring (quality mark:head of eagle) set with a central old cut diamond
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21st Century and Contemporary French Belle Époque Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, 18k Gold, White Gold

Antique Art Nouveau Diamond Pearl "Toi Et Moi" Ring
Located in Sale, Cheshire
A stunning antique Diamond and Pearl "Toi et Moi" ring first retailed in Paris in the early 20th
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Early 20th Century English Art Nouveau Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Natural Pearl, 18k Gold, White Gold, Platinum

A Romantic "Toi et Moi" Pearl and Diamond Ring
Located in New York, NY
An early 20th century 18K yellow gold ring, set with a 7.6 mm natural pearl and an approx. 1.50
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Antique Late 19th Century French Cocktail Rings

Materials

Diamond, Natural Pearl, 18k Gold

Vintage Moi Et Toi Pearl Diamond 14 Karat White Gold Cocktail Ring
Located in Crownsville, MD
Vintage circa 1940s Stern & Stern New York pearl and diamond moi et toi 14K white gold ring. Marked
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Vintage 1940s American Retro Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, Natural Pearl, 14k Gold

Victorian 0.5 Carat Old Cut Diamond Pearl 18 Carat Gold Toi Et Moi Ring
Located in St Helens, GB
A natural Diamond Toi et Moi ring circa 1910. ​Solid 18 carat yellow gold shank with platinum claw
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Antique 19th Century British Victorian Solitaire Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, Gold

White Gold "Tois Mois" Ring Diamonds and Cult, Pearl
Located in Heerlen, NL
A 14K. white gold ring "Tois et Mois" model Set with seven diamonds and a cultured Akoya pearl 6.15
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Vintage 1940s Cocktail Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, 14k Gold, White Gold

French toi et moi Old Cut Diamond and Pearl 18 Karat Rose Gold Ring
Located in Paris, FR
pearl and the diamond are set in platinum and 18 K Rose Gold, in a crossover design, also called Toi Et
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Mid-20th Century French Art Deco Engagement Rings

Materials

Diamond, 18k Gold

Edwardian pearl diamond ring in 18-karat gold and platinum
Located in PARIS, FR
substantial ring features intricate scrollwork, centered with two likely natural pearls arranged in a "Toi et
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Antique Early 1900s European Art Nouveau Fashion Rings

Materials

Diamond, Pearl, Gold, Platinum

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Toi Et Moi Pearl Ring For Sale on 1stDibs

On 1stDibs, you can find the most appropriate toi et moi pearl ring for your needs in our varied inventory. Frequently made of Gold, 18k Gold and Yellow Gold, this item was constructed with great care. Our collection of these items for sale includes 30 vintage editions and 5 modern creations to choose from as well. Making the right choice when shopping for a toi et moi pearl ring may mean carefully reviewing examples of this item dating from different eras — you can find an early iteration of this piece from the 19th Century and a newer version made as recently as the 21st Century, both of which have proven very popular over the years. As it relates to this specific piece, our collection includes designs that are universally popular, but carat weights, specifically, are sought with frequency. Creating a toi et moi pearl ring has been a part of the legacy of many jewelers, but those produced by Alberto, Van Cleef Arpels and Berca Atelier are consistently popular. A toi et moi pearl ring of any era or style can lend versatility to your look, but a version featuring Pearl, from our inventory of 25, is particularly popular. A round cut version of this piece has appeal, but there are also old mine cut and old european cut versions for sale. When shopping for a toi et moi pearl ring, you’ll find that there are less available pieces for unisex or men today than there are for women.

How Much is a Toi Et Moi Pearl Ring?

On average, a toi et moi pearl ring at 1stDibs sells for $2,675, while they’re typically $395 on the low end and $16,339 for the highest priced versions of this item.

Why Gold Shines in Jewelry Craftsmanship

Gold is the feel-good metal, the serotonin of jewelry. Wear vintage and antique gold necklaces, watches, gold bracelets or gold rings and you feel happy, you feel dressed, you feel, well, yourself. 

Gold, especially yellow gold, with its rich patina and ancient pedigree going back thousands of years, is the steady standby, the well-mannered metal of choice. Any discussion of this lustrous metal comes down to a basic truth: Gold is elementary, my dear. Gold jewelry that couples the mystique of the metal with superb design and craftsmanship achieves the status of an enduring classic. Many luxury houses have given us some of our most treasured and lasting examples of gold jewelry over the years.

Since its founding, in 1837, Tiffany Co. has built its reputation on its company jewelry as well as its coterie of boutique designers, which has included Jean Schlumberger, Donald Claflin, Angela Cummings and Elsa Peretti. There are numerous gold Tiffany classics worth citing. Some are accented with gemstones, but all stand out for their design and the workmanship displayed.

For the woman who prefers a minimalist look, the Tiffany Co. twist bangle (thin, slightly ovoid) is stylishly simple. For Cummings devotees, signature pieces feature hard stone inlay, such as her pairs of gold ear clips inlaid with black jade (a play on the classic Chanel black and tan), or bangles whose design recalls ocean waves, with undulating lines of lapis lazuli and mother-of-pearl. And just about any design by the great Jean Schlumberger is by definition a classic.

Even had he eschewed stones and diamonds, Southern-born David Webb would be hailed for the vast arsenal of heavy gold jewelry he designed. Gold, usually hammered or textured in some manner, defines great David Webb jewelry. The self-taught jeweler made very au courant pieces while drawing inspiration from ancient and out-of-the-way sources — East meets West in the commanding gold necklaces made by Webb in the early 1970s. The same could be said for his endlessly varied gold cuffs.

In Europe, many houses have given us gold jewelry that sets the highest standard for excellence, pieces that were highly sought after when they were made and continue to be so. 

Numerous designs from Cartier are homages to gold. There are the classic Trinity rings, necklaces and bracelets — trifectas of yellow, white and rose gold. As a testament to the power of love, consider the endurance of the Cartier Love bracelet.

Aldo Cipullo, Cartier’s top in-house designer from the late 1960s into the early ’70s, made history in 1969 with the Love bracelet. Cipullo frequently said that the Love bracelet was born of a sleepless night contemplating a love affair gone wrong and his realization that “the only remnants he possessed of the romance were memories.” He distilled the urge to keep a loved one close into a slim 18-karat gold bangle. 

BVLGARI and its coin jewelry, gemme nummarie, hit the jackpot when the line launched in the 1960s. The line has been perennially popular. BVLGARI coin jewelry features ancient Greek and Roman coins embedded in striking gold mounts, usually hung on thick link necklaces of varying lengths. In the 1970s, BVLGARI introduced the Tubogas line, most often made in yellow gold. The Tubogas watches are classics, and then there is the Serpenti, the house's outstanding snake-themed watches and bracelets.

A collection called Monete that incorporated the gold coins is one of several iconic BVLGARI lines that debuted in the 1970s and ’80s, catering to a new generation of empowered women. Just as designers like Halston and Yves Saint Laurent were popularizing fuss-free ready-to-wear fashion for women on the go, BVLGARI offered jewels to be lived in

Since Van Cleef Arpels opened its Place Vendôme doors in 1906, collection after collection of jewelry classics have enchanted the public. As predominantly expressed in a honeycomb of gold, there is the Ludo watch and accessories, circa the 1920s, and the golden Zip necklace, 1951, whose ingenious transformation of the traditional zipper was originally proposed by the Duchess of Windsor. Van Cleef's Alhambra, with its Moroccan motif, was introduced in 1968 and from the start its popularity pivoted on royalty and celebrity status. It remains one of VCA’s most popular and collected styles.

Mention must be made of Buccellati, whose name is synonymous with gold so finely spun that it suggests tapestry. The house’s many gold bracelets, typically embellished with a few or many diamonds, signified taste and distinction and are always in favor on the secondary market. Other important mid-20th-century houses known for their gold-themed jewelry include Hermès and Ilias Lalaounis.

Find a stunning collection of vintage and antique gold jewelry on 1stDibs.

The Legacy of Pearl in Jewelry Design

The pearl has been synonymous with ladylike elegance since the Tudor period — learn what to look for when shopping for vintage and antique pearl jewelry as well as how to tell the origin of a pearl with our handy primer.

Every woman at some point in her life desires a simple strand of pearls. They are elegant, timeless, versatile — just ask Coco Chanel or Jacqueline Kennedy — and valuable. In 1917, Pierre Cartier famously traded a double-strand of natural pearls for a Fifth Avenue mansion, the Cartier brand’s flagship store ever since. And if you were born in the beginning of summer, pearl is the June birthstone.

It is possible to tell where a pearl originated from its appearance. Akoyas are usually round and white — the classic pearl, if you will. South Sea pearls are normally larger and vary in color; orangey yellow ones are not uncommon. Tahitian pearls are mostly black but can also be gray or brown, and between the Akoya and the South Sea varieties in size. Freshwater pearls, or Orientals, run the gamut in terms of color and size, but in shape, they tend to resemble Rice Krispies. Another important distinction is a round pearl versus a baroque pearl. A round pearl is self-explanatory, but there are two types of baroque pearls: symmetrical and asymmetrical. In general, the symmetrical variation commands a higher valuation. Within a strand of pearls, uniformity is prized — the more the individual pearls resemble one another, the more valuable the strand.

According to the Gemological Institute of America (GIA), the earliest recorded mention of a pearl was in 2206 BC by a Chinese historian. Centuries later, Christopher Columbus made it a point to visit pearl fisheries during his 15th-century exploration of the Caribbean. Since the late-19th century, the Japanese have been at the forefront of cultivating pearls, when jeweler Kokichi Mikimoto successfully cultured the world’s first pearl in 1893.

On 1stDibs, find vintage and antique pearl necklaces, pearl earrings and other accessories.

Finding the Right Rings for You

Antique and vintage rings have long held a special place in the hearts of fine jewelry lovers all over the world.

No matter their origin or specific characteristics, rings are timeless, versatile accessories. They’ve carried deep meaning since at least the Middle Ages, when diamond rings symbolized strength and other kinds of rings were worn to signify romantic feelings or to denote an affiliation with a religious order. Rings have also forever been emblematic of eternity.

Over time, rings have frequently taken the form of serpents, which have long been associated with eternal life, health and renewal. Italian luxury jewelry house Bulgari has become famous for its widely loved Serpenti motif, for example, and its Serpenti ring, like the other accessories in the collection, began as an homage to jewelry of the Roman and Hellenistic eras. The serpent is now a popular motif in fine jewelry. Jewelry devotees have long pined for rings adorned with reptiles, thanks to antique Victorian rings — well, specifically, Queen Victoria’s illustrious engagement ring, which took the form of a gold snake set with rubies, diamonds and an emerald (her birthstone). Designs for Victorian-era engagement rings often featured repoussé work and chasing, in which patterns are hammered into the metal.

Engagement rings, which are reliably intimidating to shop for, are still widely recognized as symbols of love and commitment. On 1stDibs, a range of buying guides can be found for those in the market for antique engagement ringsvintage engagement rings or Art Deco engagement rings

The most collectible antique engagement rings and vintage engagement rings are those from the Victorian, Edwardian and Art Deco eras. Named for the monarchies of the four King Georges, who in succession ruled England starting in 1714 (plus King William’s reign), antique Georgian rings, be they engagement rings or otherwise, are also coveted by collectors. Pearls, along with colored gemstones like garnets, rubies and sapphires, were widely used in Georgian jewelry. The late-1700s paste jewelry was a predecessor to what we now call fashion or costume jewelry

The Art Nouveau movement (1880–1910) brought with it rings inspired by the natural world. Antique Art Nouveau rings might feature depictions of winged insects and fauna as well as women, who were simultaneously eroticized and romanticized, frequently with long flowing hair. Art Deco jewelry, on the other hand, which originated during the 1920s and ’30s, is by and large “white jewelry.” White metals, primarily platinum, were favored over yellow gold in the design of antique Art Deco rings and other accessories as well as geometric motifs, with women drawn to the era’s dazzling cocktail rings in particular.

Whether you’re hunting down a chunky classic for a Prohibition-themed cocktail party or seeking a clean contemporary design to complement your casual ensemble, find an exquisite collection of antique, new and vintage rings on 1stDibs.

Questions About Toi Et Moi Pearl Ring
  • 1stDibs ExpertApril 5, 2022
    A toi et moi ring, French for “you and me” is a style of ring meant to signify loving partnerships. Toi et moi rings are rings that feature two gemstones meant to symbolize the two people in love and can come in a variety of settings. Shop a range of rings, including toi et moi styles, on 1stDibs.